How to Make the Most of Your 20s (according to a therapist)

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Sam Lui
Published at : 08 Nov 2021
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Have you ever been curious on how to make the most of your 20s? You might find the answer from therapist Dr. Meg Jay, author of The Defining Decade and therapist who’s worked with twentysomethings. If you are looking for guidance on how to find a career or finding the right partner, this video is for you.

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7:25 Weak ties
9:24 Being realistic
11:52:19 Dating down & your dating narrative
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16:54 There’s no ‘right way’ to live your life


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